From Dust to Dust to “Dust”

“I have a girl. She’s more of a modern dancer, but she’s good. Check her out and see if she’ll fit.”

I was getting a good word about Megan Bridge from my friend and colleague Scott Johnston, veteran performer of The Peek-A-Boo Revue neo-burlesque show, during a rehearsal 10 years ago when I was heading up the cabaret show as one of the directors. The troupe was undergoing many changes at the time with its former leader heading off to L.A. for a stint, and many of the members were engaging in other projects. After many heated discussions, I urged the group to start holding auditions for auxiliary members to fill-in on an understudy basis (two of the girls I hired are now directing the troupe). Much to my pleasant surprise, when Megan first stepped onstage at the famous/infamous The Five Spot in Old City, Philadelphia, she bridged the gap that had been missing during my initial inception in mounting the monthly variety show.

While most of my Bob Fosse-isms were satisfied amongst what the breadth of the burlesquers had to offer, I was still craving the opportunity to exhibit my choreographic heritage of modern dance. The girls and boys of The Peek-A-Boo were well versed in jazz, ballet and tap dance, but it was my duty to incorporate some Graham, Horton, Cunningham and Ailey into our contemporary satire tongue-and-cheek stripteases. When Megan offered some modern dance improvisational exercises (including contact improvisation which was in its infantile stages circa 2005), I felt the delicious pangs of her saving graces.

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She was my newest muse and we would go on to work together on some of the show’s most controversial numbers including a nun straitjacket striptease danced to “I Can Hardly Wait”, and a crowd favorite involving two naughty French mimes that was performed during our “April in Paris” themed show which we revamped and exhibited at a First Friday art gallery event (my first performance art exhibition).

Though Megan was a semi-regular installment during her time with the burlesque troupe, she ignited the passion in me to pursue modern dance more seriously. Her style was unique, quirky and adept. Not only was she a sponge that could bring any of my artistic visions to life, she doled out a lot of education in the realm of new contemporary dance that was foreign and anathema to me (still is).

It was a sad serendipity when The Five Spot burned down, leaving us without a venue, but leaving me with a proper exit to start producing more dance theater work. But before I separated from The Peek-A-Boo Revue, Megan was the primary canvas for painting my new direction as a director and choreographer when she danced the then apotheosis of my work, “Filter”, during the opening night ceremonial event of Hokum Arts. It was a piece about 9/11 and it was a direct symbiosis of my flowing, acrobatic, convoluted motif and her frantic, succinct, imaginary style. This piece helped to land me a City Paper’s Editor’s Choice Award for Best New Choreographer.

Megan and I went our equal but separate ways, her starting her unorthodox and anti-establishment success that is <fidget>, a hybrid of the talents of her and her longtime muse, collaborator and now husband, artist Peter Price. Together they have erected one of the most notable performance institutions in Philadelphia and continue to produce some of the city’s most engaging works.

I ventured on as an independent director/choreographer producing my work in that chasm between small theaters and seedy bars, trying to feed and feed off of what I would consider the underprivileged in the art world (neither here nor there). As I grew I realized that some of my work was a little too cutting edge as I have honed my ability to mix the academic with the provocative and after I made my first trip to Europe in 2008, I knew I would be making a sojourn there to experience artistic freedom not allowed in the USA.

I’ve been gone for the past three years and much of what I learned from Megan followed me to Berlin. Though the city’s landscape provided artist kids like myself free reign the likes of a candy store, I was not prepared for the lack of real, old-school modern dance in Germany’s capital. Out of all the things they condone, there was no real place for me as a modern choreographer except as a teacher. It was a blessing and a curse in that while my experience with modern dance was a rarity thus allowing me to attract students unfamiliar with the technique, the genre was not readily accepted into dance festivals and performance spaces (most dance studios didn’t even have a mirror). Thus I turned to contemporary dance as a platform (despite my limited training in it) and I took a cue from Megan and used other forms of visual art and multimedia to exhibit my work in new ways. I started making dance films and that was my in. I showed my first dance film at TanzBad 4, a very popular contemporary dance showcase that takes place every spring in Berlin.

When I climbed up The Fringe Arts’ theater stairs I was overcome with that sick feeling in my gut of nervousness, excitement, and envy. I had already reviewed the scope of what I missed in the burlesque scene by attending a few shows scattered amongst the city from my old family (that seems to be far and in between since I left). Now I was back in that precious divide between mainstream and underground where the city’s cultural mavens meet to experience high art or something like it in a space reserved for the who-you-should-know-if-you-don’t-already.

I had been following Megan and her crew’s journey in producing this new work “Dust” and I was more than grateful that an old burlesque buddy of mine afforded me the opportunity to see it by treating me to a ticket – for I am one of those artists who desperately want to become one of the known no matter what it costs, if not only to be able to pay to see the art of others.

This performance was especially important to me not only for the aforementioned, but to hopefully breathe life into my dying inspiration. It is hard to go from being a marvel (in Berlin) to being a degenerate (in Philadelphia); I wanted to see the light.

With her abundance of ambition, Megan Bridge received blessings and approval to perform “Dust” in a unique staging by <fidget> from its creator and poetic visionary, Robert Ashley. Following his acceptance of her inquiry, Megan took her group on a journey to reinvent the work while maintaining the artist’s phenomenal intent – and during the beginning stages of production, Ashley died at the age of 83.

It is not wholly necessary to comment on the many ways this could affect the structure and emotion involved with making the work altogether, and the only ones privy to this could be the collaborators themselves (of which there are many – new and old of the <fidget> incubator). The piece itself as presented by <fidget> is a brilliant homage to Robert Ashley but also an perfectly crafted exposition of Price and Bridge’s repertoire.

If you don’t know Megan (already), or post-modern contemporary dance forms, you may have struggled during the opening montages of “Dust”, trying to correlate something to something else. That is the trouble and the beauty of this art form. I describe contemporary dance as such: It’s like going to an art gallery, but instead of looking at the paintings, the paintings are looking at you.

There are lots of mannerisms and lots of words and lots of lighting cues and lots of subtleties and insinuations that to the untrained eye may look like they are trying to make you feel stupid and that you are missing the joke. The seemingly disparate yet rhythmic (but at the same time syncopated) choral injections of speaking amount to a thoughtful thinking-out-loud etched out by Ashley and eventually it all starts to make a sum of its parts as the piece goes on.

One of the first questions that came to mind was, “Would this piece be any different if the artists played different characters?” Funny enough, halfway into “Dust” the performers become this amorphous vehicle of storytelling and it embodies this statement of us all being different but the same.

What Megan does as a dancer and choreographer is cheeky as ever. She figuratively and literally gives a wink to modern dance, almost as a way to heed to her constant inclination to go against the grain. We as dancers love and hate the freedom and restriction of contemporary dance when sometimes there is no dance at all. She takes a moment to deliver the elementary structures of modern dance with her contractions and rise-and-fall exercises, while mixing in the daunting and delicate nuances of contemporary technique. Partnering is reared successfully as well, and the duets and trios all have very special moments to chime in on the theme of “Dust” amply. The dancers were a precious gift to Megan, and it was a thrill to see them all on stage together and delving into the work in that tender, yet intense way. Them along with the juxtaposition of Peter Price’s thoughtful technical work, brought out a magnetic attraction to the performance overall.

Towards the end I found myself kicking myself (or as it were the woman in front of me as The Fringe Arts theater has very steep rows) noting the allusions Megan was making to herself and Peter’s earlier works. There were interjections of baroque music and movements – and I noticed the repetition of the very first gesture/pose I saw Megan perform during her very first <fidget> performance entitled “The Fold” (2006) in which I wrote:

“Megan Bridge takes her space off the easel and allows movement to travel outside of traditional realms.”

To me, Thursday, April 16 was a throw back Thursday if I ever saw one. I was treated to this wonderful memory of all the things that influenced me so long ago to mold myself into the person I am today. “Dust” was an infusion of inspiration and innovation. These are the two most important tools in the artist’s toolbox – without them, we have no Life Force.

I saw the show just a few days after receiving news that one of my friends and biggest inspirations in Berlin, Sascha Weidner, had died. He was another amazing artist that left us too soon and I had some of the best conversations of my life with this man. He was a satirist and did a lot of unique, witty and completely unexpected exhibitions of his work. His death weighed heavy on my heart and sparked this atrocious resurgence of my overactive awareness of my own mortality (is that not the grandest occupational hazard of an artist?). I haven’t been creating much since I returned to Philadelphia and I feel like I could die any minute. Also, is my life worth anything if I’m not producing work? Sascha would spend an entire day or two just working and creating, without sleeping, eating…and never failed to have anything to say about art or his next project or his last.

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[From the exhibition: “unveiled” | courtesy http://www.saschaweidner.de]

When I found out he was gone, I craved for that divine inspiration all over again and hoped that I could somehow conjure it up without Berlin, with some type of proverbial incantation by seeing the success of my jilted muse.

It was an extraordinary undertaking for Megan, and I am so proud of her passion, how much she’s grown, and how much she has stayed the same. I feel like a parent sometimes when I think and talk about the artists I’ve been fortunate enough to work with. I feel so privileged to be able to read between the lines that “Dust” offered despite the tragedy that stood as much of the driving force behind it. You must live in order to learn, even if the knowledge comes posthumously.

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REVIEW: “Floydada presented by The Peculiar Works Project”

I got a new gig contributing to this Broadway Blog…

“With Floydada, the nonconventional style of PWP has the perfect vehicle with which to pay homage to anti-art, as Dadaism once touted a new platform that would be appropriate for PWP’s mission. Without the overbearing tumult of tradition, one might think that PWP would have an easy ride with exploring the sometimes absurdist ways of expressing and/or creating art which were pegged by pioneers the likes of Duchamp, Kandinsky, Höch, Man Ray, etcetera during the first World War.”

Read More Here: Center on the Aisle 

Here are some photos from the experience:

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Tarried Away

Tarried Away

3 minutes, 3 hours, 3 days, 3 weeks, 3 months, 3 years, 3 decades, 3 cities, 3 men, 3 friends, 3 lives…

There is a constant theme of trifecta in my life that sways between the desires of want versus need and remains a source for the establishment of a battleground for my id and ego. There are choices, decisions, and demands – all of which add up to a seeming ultimatum.

Three months ago I was flying over Philadelphia by way of Frankfurt by way of the Wonderland that is Berlin. I was poised to start everything all over again in a new or old place that would be the asylum from my last tumultuous yet prosperous adventure. My stomach was rife with taut knots of ambivalence as I saw the azure shaded, metallic colored, neo-modern skyline of the place of my homecoming with those ever-present reminiscent nuances of art deco that I grew to love to hate and hate to love after so long. What was so familiar looked foreign and then again familiar all after a few augmented heartbeats. I felt that feeling of home that I hadn’t realized since I left it.

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I had three minutes to decide if I was leaving Berlin. Three of my friends rallied to build a safety net for me with which to jump, though admittedly, there was a very wobbly and crooked tightrope that I had to walk in order to secure the trip back to Philadelphia. They knew the intimate details of my strife and knew the hardheaded nature of my resilience and steadfastly urged me to get the hell out of the Hell I was enduring. My eyes strained to look at the blurry details of flight numbers and departure and arrival times and all of those fussy things that would give me the wings to fly off and away as soon as possible, but for so long I deemed it impossible not knowing it was a possibility at all.

Three weeks I was given to complete the last chapter of my sojourn. I had until December 13th to gather all of my belongings, to tie up loose ends, to finalize all contracts, to notify my brigades, to settle all debts, to remove all traces of me, to give three thousand kisses goodbye, to say so long to my friends, to conceive a new ruse to trick myself into wanting to go back to the USA…

I didn’t have to worry so much about any sort of emotional outcries from the Germans (obviously) but I knew that there would be an onslaught of uncomfortable tears cascading down the forlorn faces of many of my artist brethren. I pondered the guilt and the regret, but they as well as I knew very well that I too would one day become one of those Berliner transients who needed to take his story somewhere else and start a new one altogether. I had survived somehow amongst the meek and the tattered – those who came for the same reasons as everyone else and fueled by penance retreated back to their homeland unwillingly. I had earned that dubious prize of making it to an entire three years, a glorious feat in the same breath, and to take that accomplishment to heart and then all-of-a-sudden start listening to your brain seemed to be quite an anathema to the other semi-permanent denizens I came to know. It was a sort of unexpected expectation for we all had taught ourselves how to live in the moment – and when forced to acknowledge the insecurity of the future, we were plagued with the barring of the unknown.

I had considered Paris and Amsterdam and somewhere in Italy, but I was always possessed by the strong arms of Berlin and its ability to wipe out any source of capital in which to bring yourself to another one. I thought being there was a vehicle to propel myself to where I really wanted to be, and if I was going back “home” I would end up in Chicago or San Francisco or in my true and undying love: New York City.

It was not at all a loss to be in “poor but sexy” Berlin because I learned the valuable lesson that Europeans have been teaching for centuries and that is the enriching pedagogy involving the adage “make art not money” – and I was afforded this luxury in abundance. The only work anyone ever talked about was the work of artists, and to be polarized so respectfully by a socialist society all of whom attend the theater and opera and galleries without the confines or segregation of class or sociopolitical status was a glorious opportunity for professional development; every artist deserves to experience this firsthand.

As much as I hate to admit it, three men made a huge impact on my life while I was in Germany, and as history has shown, triads are a common theme in my life considering my typical serial mistress proclivity.

The first was my Woody Allen.

I met my Woody Allen before I visited Berlin for the second time in 2010 when I stayed for three months. Enamored with the city due to my holiday visit a year prior, I had scoped out potential mates and/or friends on some dating sites and he popped up – spritely, worldly, inviting, hairy, and very German. We got to chatting and he basically coerced (not convinced, hence the German in him) me to take the leap and move to Deutschland, as speculation would not prove anything. The logic made sense to me.

Mesmerized by his disarming and authoritative nature, I fell under his spell and we engaged in a very heated platonic affair that spawned a point of indecision on my behalf after three weeks. I learned that Europeans don’t have these strict rules and regulations when it comes to dating like the Americans do. There is no:

  1. Dinner and a Movie Incessantly
  2. Meet the Parents
  3. Move in Together
  4. Get Married
  5. Have a Baby
  6. Avoid Divorce if at all Possible

Instead, I was being treated to lavish non-materialistic ventures into parks and landmarks and gardens, hours long retrospectives, museum tours, picturesque bike rides, private home art exhibitions (elegantly called “vernissage” in Europe), tours of the wakes of Nazi horrors not found on double-decker bus rides, and impeccable coffee conversations. This was what I had been missing in America while I was working three jobs, I had three houses, and I had three lives (none of which I was actually living).

Woody Allen and I never amounted to anything seriously romantic despite how romantic everything was between us, including the work that we did together that was sprawled out next to picnic fare on the socially fertile grasses of Görlitzer Park on those rare Berlin days when the heavy, low hanging gray sky made way for a few hours of sunshine.

For the so long procession we met at the first place we first met, a bustling and large living room style café called Bilder Buch, translated as Picture Book, that resembles what much of my life felt like when I was with Woody. We sat in the front window and reminisced about what had transpired and he was not at all surprised that I was leaving, but he was shocked that I was going – it is hard to explain. I felt as though my time with him wasn’t up, and though we hadn’t wasted time, perhaps we could have made better of it – but he had surely established himself in my future and we reiterated that we would soon see each other again.

I didn’t tell The Second Man in my Life that I was leaving because frankly, he was the main reason I was leaving. On top of the fact that there were looming legal circumstances involving my communication with him, his entrance into my life was the catalyst for my exit.

While Woody Allen gave me all of those fairytale like experiences we go looking for in Europe, Mr. Doom (for intents and purposes) doled out those tumultuous and bad boy damages that many artists crave in the most masochistic way in the proclamation that it is good for their art. Unabashedly, Mr. Doom gave me a tremendous boost in reinventing myself as an artist and a person, and without him I would have not been as successful as I was while I was in Berlin. Furthermore, nor would I have failed at anything without him.

If you know me for a little while, you may become familiar with my 3 Strikes You’re Out Method. It’s self-explanatory really, and I use this tried and true formula to tolerate, expiate and eradicate problems in my life to the best of my extent. With Mr. Doom, there were three very strong points of contention for us:

  1. He was a jealous/possessive lover already in a committed relationship.
  2. He had severe substance abuse issues.
  3. He was German.

The third time he tried to strangle me to death – with his firm hands that once drew me in with a deceptive loving touch just three weeks after my arrival in Berlin in 2011 – the game was over.

I said goodbye to him with a restraining order, something that took all of my patience and perseverance to get. The last three months of my stay in Berlin was riddled with ridicule from the German government including the police, the district attorney and the family court in my trying to explain to them the circumstances. It was then that I learned again (as expatriates do over and over and over) that it is never a good thing to point out any (nonexistent) flaws in their culture, and I was punished mercilessly for even mentioning it to them.

Needless to say, his psychosis, dependence and genetics made for a phenomenal lay.

“Be happy,” The Third Man to Make me Different said sternly in his deep robotic voice – his naked body pressed against my shielded one. I was layered with as much clothing as I could adorn my body with in order to supplement the three pieces of luggage I was taking on the trip back to where I came from. Teddy Bear (his nickname) made it a point to be there when I was leaving despite my request for him not to be. He was to drive me to the airport but I refused, vehemently. Still, he was there to see the very end.

In foresight, I thought he would be the one to make me cry and have me kicking and screaming (perhaps in public, could you imagine!?) because he represented all that I wanted and actually needed in Berlin. He was the hunter/gatherer, the intellect, the supporter, the amazing lover, the arguer, the jester, the teacher, the learner, the blond hair blue eyed wonder that represents that fabled ambassador to German culture.

There he was standing before me with that body of his, about to be behind me – and it was not sexual, as much as it always made me want to jump his bones. At that moment I realized how much I would miss that discomfort of the German habit of being allergic to clothes. His masculine visage speckled with wise grayish hairs and curtains of fine lines and fine lips that were always frowning even when he was laughing or smiling and the big brooding brow and the wispy effortless handsomeness of his mane and the detached and adorable lobes of his oversized ears that somehow made me think he was good for breeding and his strong broad shoulders and his heaping fuzzy pectorals with the pinkish brown tiny nib nipples that are the target of his want and could always render him powerless and his belly that I had filled so many times with rich and buttery Southern meals that would make him sick and give him heartburn but he was always a hedonist and loved the love I put into my food and he could not as a German admit his health ails anyway and his plump buttocks and appetizing manness and sturdy haunches and firm legs with the sculpted calves and his meaty arms and perfect looking feet even though I’m not into feet and his ridged back like an animal of sorts that gives him such a regal gait and those soft but robust fingers that I would massage when he was stressed out and the one little finger that was injured when he was robbed in Turkey and the part of his back that was sensitive to the touch because of this and the scar on his knee because of that and all the other stories of his body…

I could have been happy with him but I refused. His inclination towards what he says are “American Librarians,” was the blessing and the curse that matched my desire for just plain Germans. He was a just plain German in the most explicable way and that was what brought me to and away from him. His overbearing lack of emotion was something that he admitted to readily and reproached his upbringing (a post-war baby boomer) and he could not un-teach himself to be a just plain German who does not emote or cry or show any signs of weakness. Instead, he would play me operas and songs with telling content of how he could possibly feel under different nature/nurture circumstances (one aria in particular involved a woman who was dying of cancer and was happy that she met a beautiful young boy who smoked cigarettes so they could die together and in love simultaneously). It was this kind of subtle behavior that enraptured me, but I too could not deny my heritage. Americans are obnoxious when it comes to most anything – and there is a certain point where the polarity of opposites attracting can have a negative impact with all those wants and needs that fall within the chasm between two individuals.

The Teddy Bear taught me how to cuddle. His wordless actions of intimacy were much revered by me. Before I went to Berlin I was considered to be cold and distant by many of my lovers and friends and family – and I took pride in it (get over it). I thought that I was protecting myself and whomever I was with from the dark side of being an artist and an opportunistic businessman, for I’ve always put my work first. When I told my friends back home what was going on they thought I had become someone else. They never knew me to be so emotional, but when surrounded by Germans, it is hard not to have that element magnified.

Many times over he disrobed in front of me and gave me a nonchalant look – that threat of the logical German way to solve all problems. I closed the laptop, put the books away, returned the paperwork to its folders, turned out the lights, finished my wine, reluctantly removed my clothes, and made it to bed with him. He would throw my body into a position without much retort from me, and we would become this seamless spoon of one rather than two. He taught me how to appreciate time and to appreciate things that are not so readily seen by the eyes.

“There is ice cream in the freezer,” he would tell me when I was myself at my most American, bitching and complaining about everything, hysterical and craving hard alcohol. Nothing was right, everything was wrong, and all I wanted to do was jump out of the window. Perhaps it was a cry for help, not in the mainstream way, but to get him to actually open up, to for once show some emotion (other than anger, which Germans are impeccable at distributing).

“The fucking dishwasher is fucking broken what did you do to it!” he yelled at me in complete deception. The dishwasher was fine. What was wrong was that I had again wrote one of my epic letters (this time with little signature drawings inspired by a French friend of mine) latently explaining to him how much I loved him. He was frothing about the mouth and it was scary. Why couldn’t he embrace me with unhidden words instead? I am a writer, it’s not that hard to please me. I’m lying.

It was then that we both knew that it (whatever that means) would never work. He did finally take the time to explain to me (again) that he cannot emote and I had to explain to him that it was something that I wanted and needed and I would not compromise in this regard.

Several uncomfortable dinner parties, excursions, cuddling rendezvous and the like later, I was still torn to pieces. Woody Allen had shown me the romance, Mr. Doom was a fuckhead who was the best fuck of my life, and Teddy Bear had wooed me with psychological intimacy. I bid them all adieu.

There were three of my closest friends in Berlin I did not want to part with – and if it was not such an impossibility for them or me or in reality, I would have carried one in my checked suitcase, the other in my carry-on luggage, and the other in my other carry-on bag, because the thought of leaving them behind was too much to bear.

Knowing me, they knew I wouldn’t cry – and admittedly I wanted to, desperately, though the coldness of the Teutonic way that I had become accustomed to did not allow my cheeks to become wetted with that salty and sanctimonious fluid, at least not until my final three minutes in Berlin when I was at the gate and it all became true.

“DeVo,” I heard my best friend, Carrie, call out as I was frantically meandering about, my eyes darting in my dizzy head looking for one last trace of familiarity in Tegel Airport, a place I’ve come and gone to so many times and once fornicated in (coincidentally the last time I had a real cry was in one of the airline’s offices where I cried Mr. Doom back into my arms). When I saw Carrie, my rock and beautiful weeping willow, with her characteristic passion red lipstick and bohemian chic style and traces of that southern genteel charm and her delicate grace – I collapsed into a toddler-like fit of sobbing, unstoppable and unclogging so much of my repressed feelings.

“Don’t you ever tell anyone about this,” I laughed while quickly hiding the evidence in a handkerchief. She knew me too well to ever mention those pivotal waterworks to anyone else, as to her it was a secret gift that she had been longing for since we first met and she found out about all the prefaces, addendum, and appendixes to my open book existence. She handed me a wooden heart as a memento.

There would be no more texts or emails or facebook messages or phone calls with the simple statement of “meet at our place” (a Mediterranean-owned smoker’s café in the center of one of many gay districts that boasted a French bistro style, high art photography, a cute and cunning spicy brown staff, strong Turkish coffee, and ever-lit taper candles that gave the whole place a welcoming glow). There would be no more meetings at the fountain that was adjacent to her house – where we would foolishly try to roll our own cigarettes while we pondered the meaning of our lives in the rabbit hole and talked about our fears and our dreams and our nightmares as bits of decipherable German ran in and out of our ears from a plethora of native and foreign passerby. There would be no more walks through the timeless and amorphous city where we learned how to stand still for a while and to appreciate our craft and calling more so than we ever could anywhere else.

The other two friends had the same non-reaction reaction as Carrie when I told them I was heading back to Philadelphia: the eyes swept down to the floor, the look of nausea on their faces, the pensive posture…

“You’re leaving,” more of a statement than a question.

Ja, schatzi,” I returned, solemnly.

It took three officials to get me onto the plane expeditiously. The first to greet and stop me was a man of charming and loose authority, with the inherent blond hair and blue eyes that I realized I would soon be loathing to long before long. I was impressed with myself that I could place his accent, and when he told me “Please do not think I am angry, I am just frustrated because my English ist not so gut,” I was seduced all over again by the German way.

He led me back to a room where all the other refugees were waiting to hear the decision of whether or not they could or could not leave the country and the repercussions therein. I was starting to feel American again, and less like a Berliner – for I was being treated with this kind of grandiose respect that I always found jarring considering our bipartisan ways. My flight from Frankfurt was leaving in three hours and the young, beautiful officer vowed that he would get me to the plane on time.

The head officer was full of malaise and not so concerned with what was on and/or missing from my passport. He was even more discontented with the enormous stack of paperwork that I had given him in regards to my in-hiding stint initiated by my troubles with Mr. Doom (and mandated by the police). If I learned anything (though I think I’ve learned everything) about Germans it’s that they love love love paperwork, and it is the only acceptable means of even attempting to get through any sort of jurisdiction and you can never give them more than enough.

He gave me a once over through the top brim of his glasses, made some copies and waved to his colleague to continue on with me to another room. On the way, the handsome young officer explained to me every detail of what was to happen next – and reassured me that I would be on the flight on time (Germans with their timeliness!).

He went through my belongings, looking for contraband or whatever and when he started to go through one bag – I started to cry in spite of myself. I apologized profusely, but there it was – all of my life in three little bags, and I thought of all three months and all three years in which I went on this trip to find myself, after losing three close colleagues to death, after three botched attempts at relationships ended, after three Germans wreaked havoc on my desire, after three friends became my family…

Naturally, he did not understand these liquid things coming out of my eyes and instead of attempting to console me, like a good German, he expedited the process in an alarming pace. He threw my clothes back into the three bags without so much as looking at me. His co-worker entered with paperwork and a camera and the camera was broken and they couldn’t translate the German to English on the form and the fingerprinting paper was missing and the whole thing was a debacle. I laughed for a moment; my life was a spectacle.

The other officer was cute and typische deutcher too and I felt goose bumps with every finger that he took in both of his hands and pushed onto the black ink and then the little squares of my carbon footprint recorder – I was aroused. I am disgusting.

Anyway, the young officer finished up the proceedings, urged me to contact this jurisdiction and that, summed up what happened and what might possibly happen and then escorted me to the smoking lounge. “I want to give you one last good luck cigarette before you leave Germany,” he started, smirking at me with his gorgeous, blue-eyed smile.

“I am very sorry about what ist happen heres to you,” he started, careful not to make me cry like a good American again, “but you should haves a good future and I wish the bestest for you.” I didn’t cry.

Always inquisitive (and flirtatious), I asked him about his life and he told me he grew up wanting to be an official at football games. He comes from a family of police from a small town and he was stationed in the airport against his choice. When he started working at the airport he was disappointed but quickly learned that he loved helping people and wouldn’t want to work anywhere else.

He walked me to the gate and asked about the departure time. I was early. There I stood in line just before the flight started boarding and it was actually happening. I looked at my fellow passengers, many of whom were looking at me with skeptical eyes considering I was being escorted by a policeman. He shook my hand and I felt important, almost superior – or at least I tried to tell myself that to avoid embarrassment. And then I was on and off back to America.

I was scared shitless that the Americans were going to give me hell for the discrepancies involved with my visa issues. I didn’t think it would be the Germans that would address my problem but rather those dramatic Americans. After seeing the Philly skyline I felt relieved, but not relaxed and I thought that it wouldn’t take a long time to find my footing again. The last time I came back to the USA it took me three weeks to find three jobs.

“Are you with the military?” the customs agent asked. I laughed and told him no, I was an artist – and I said it confidently (for the first time in America) and he let me through.

I saw my friends and I was enveloped in the feeling of home. So many things have changed, but the overall vibe has stayed the same. Still haunted by memories of those I have lost (and those who have lost me), I succumb every once and again to nostalgia and longing. There are buildings where I made firsts and lasts, there are locales that have distinctive smells that remind me of so many things, there are certain places I go where I feel uncertain. I took the other three cities off the list and decided to stay in Philly, my first true love of a city, and in some way I had a lot of reconciling to do.

I’ve been here three months now and like a good first, true love – Philly is starting to act like that old ex-boyfriend who you’ve been hooking up with again. He’s starting to show his old annoying habits again, he is unruly, and takes much more than he gives, leaving me in a state of regret. Sure there are all those underlying love nuggets, but generally I am starting to remember why I left him in the first place.

The reverse culture shock doesn’t help, and the reality of that shows in the superficial, wasteful culture here that I didn’t realize was so grating until I made my first trip out of the country. I don’t fit in anywhere, and I don’t have the desire to do so, it just seems as though that is the M.O. of this society.

I’m actually keeping a running list of culture shock instances:

  1. The lights and/or TV are always on. There is no inclination to save electricity.
  2. The subway doors open on their own.
  3. No regards for personal space and everyone will talk to anyone.
  4. Working (on the phone) and eating while walking down the street.
  5. Not a lot of public clocks and most are broken anyway.
  6. People don’t smoke everywhere.
  7. Ill-fitting jeans and long shorts.
  8. Hold wine glasses by the cup rather than the stem.
  9. Commercialism/Consumerism/Capitalism is ever-present.
  10. Acronyms for everything.
  11. TV bleeping, overall censorship.
  12. Pets on leashes.
  13. Gamers and video game culture.
  14. Cheese in advertising literally/figuratively. Lots of cheese.
  15. Vertical versus Horizontal living.
  16. Masculinity of German gays versus American gays (latter less prevalent).
  17. Jobs pay a lot of money.
  18. More southpaws.
  19. Sports culture – people judge you by sports/teams you like.
  20. Tinted windows in cars.
  21. Dented/damaged cars.
  22. Married with Children obsession – in an unnatural way.
  23. Immediate and constant customer service.
  24. Superficiality and emotions i.e. saying “I love you” effortlessly.
  25. Dirty Toilets (from men not sitting when pissing)
  26. Everyone is medicated.
  27. Excessive alcohol and shot drinking.
  28. Credit cards as preferred method of payment.
  29. Lack of bookstores.
  30. Security everywhere.
  31. Prices of goods: healthy food is more expensive than unhealthy food.
  32. Yoga obsession.
  33. Plastic surgery.

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For thirty years I’ve lived in over thirty different homes and now I find myself back in the tri-state area next to the peninsula of my upbringing. I stayed too long almost against my will in Berlin, and every second I feel like I am staying too long here in Philly. It’s been so long since I’ve been to New York – who knows if there’s a place for me to stay there, if I am welcomed. Is there a snooze button for the city that never sleeps?

Poetry: “Trail of Three Cities”

Trail of Three Cities

I.

Country boy made the city his home
And fell in love at first site
Hating the freedom of reliability
Giving way to what may be might

Looking for a foundation in brickwork
The river parts the common divide
Where the country was born yesterday
To each his own on the other side

Welcoming places you can’t come back to
That familiar place always unknown
Unfettered nomad boy on the run
The Sisyphus plight of a Rolling Stone

Never the burden of being a denizen
Newness never ever after gets old
When you’re gone love will always be there
At least that is what is thought to be told

II.

Across the sea is a new place to drown
With another leased soul to sell
Aliens are exotic off the beaten path
Worldliness is Godliness when in Hell

Quiet and assuming harsh angular lines
River joins the separate adjacent territory
They want it impossible to learn the language
So there is never an end to the story

Tainted passport stamps for contrary customs
Unprecedented ambassadors cold from war
No place to hang the hats left behind
Those relics of so many a written score

The wakes of dirty bars and immaculate flats
Stone yourself to death in order to live
The transient want of the Teutonic way
But the place is not yours to give

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“The Punishment of Sisyphus”, detail of a painting on an amphora by the Achelous Painter, late 6th century BC; in the State Collections of Classical Art, Munich Bildarchiv Foto Marburg/Art Resource, New York City

III.

The uncharted unclaimed land of Manifest Destiny
A laugh and a cry at a myriad of welcome mats
You can’t help but to think of a tombstone home
Amongst the living dead lives of expats

Liberty is the most expensive thing in the world
And the plateau of the plain is hard to grip
They say the nightmare is worth the dream
Jaded times are cured with one little trip

Chaffed elbows and screams silenced
A far cry from the closeness of Man
But well worth the cumbersome climb
The duty of finding a home base plan

A touchstone to be eroded by timelessness
An amorphous river can’t wash away
Roads not paved still lead to somewhere
But it is not for you to say

© ldn, 2015

Process: Directing

I have something I’m working on on the back burner so to speak.

I’ve been coming across several of my Burlesque friends here in Philly from yesteryear and going to their shows and seeing what they’re up to. The landscape has grown since I’ve been gone. I’ve polarized the nuances of American versus European striptease firsthand, and now I feel fueled and ready to create a hodgepodge of what I’ve learned in Berlin, but I must be careful…The USA seems to be getting more conservative by the day.

Prompted by a tagged photo on Facebook, I came across an old line-up from when I directed/choreographed The Peek-A-Boo Revue – when it was housed in its original location, the infamous jazz club, The Five Spot. I was making magic monthly, and I miss it terribly. This particular show was very very very DeVo-centric in its presentation, content and theme; I also performed in this show. Funny looking back at it now, before I went to Paris for the first time…perhaps it was portent.

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Self = Portraits…part six

Initially I wanted to make these films to satirize the amorphous landscape in which I was residing at the time, right before I made the sojourn to Europe. I thought that when I returned to the USA I would finish this project with a final destination piece but it seems as thought the journey will continue indefinitely. Here’s the last bunch of films from Berlin.

Self = Portraits…part one
Self = Portraits…part two
Self = Portraits…part three
Self = Portraits…part four
Self = Portraits…part five

57. Voice

The original filming included audio in which I was reading a letter that I wrote to a lover of mine who was involved in a polyamorous relationship. At this time (Winter 2013) I was in and out of hiding due to the effects of a serial stalker who was delving into a harrowing amount of constant abuse. Because social media is such an important part of my art, I had lost my voice. I started writing letters and postcards more often as a vehicle for my vice, but more and more I realized that I had to realize how to fight against the perpetrator’s offenses as his goal was to keep me silent. The lover of mine I wrote the letter to was an “action speaks louder than words” kind of guy, and I was addressing the complications of this issue – me being a writer and all.

 

58. Regret 1

Many people tend to try and convince themselves that they are able to live without regret. This is not a belief of mine. My biggest and continuing regret in life is that I never studied the piano with great discipline. I’ve never had the time or money to commit to it fully and though I can play by ear (the guitar as well) I am severely math-phobic and have not been able to tackle reading music. These thoughts of regrets were due mostly in part to the fact that I was realizing a lot of life deteriorating around me, as is commonplace in Berlin. I was staying with a friend who had a piano and I would try to regurgitate what I’ve learned in the past.

 

59. Regret 2

Being an artist in Berlin is great. You get to do whatever you want and nobody cares that you don’t make any money. I was an athlete growing up. Before I found Shakespeare and ballet I was playing basketball, soccer, tennis, and I was very good at track; so much so that I was poised to become an olympian on account of my record breaking tendencies. I loved gymnastics but I didn’t have the upper body strength to endure the rigorous events the likes of the pommel horse and rings (the parallel bars, floor and funny enough, the balance beam were my best events). Every so often I wonder what my life would be like if I stayed on the playing field rather than going with art.

 

60.  Temptation

Fruit, cages, contemporary striptease, blindfolds, stuffing of underwear: all indicative of typical DeVo satire. Needless to say, the soundtrack provides a pretty clear statement as to what was going on with me. I was surrounded by trouble, that big red button, and blindly I found myself with not many other choices. I contacted my mother around this time in a sheer act of desperation and only managed to get a rise out of her, not much of else except more tumult to add to the fire.

 

61. id

For an undisclosed amount of time I was traveling from place to place in order to avoid and/or prevent any contact with the aforementioned stalker who by this time was finding a new way to try to contact me about once every two weeks. I had to walk past this “RUN” graffiti every time I sought out this particular asylum. Seeing it all the time was laughable and painful altogether. There was a big lull in my filmmaking due to having to stay under the radar and I had dropped my iPhone in a bucket of water during one of my many indentured servant interludes. I had acquired a “company phone” for a dance performance I was casted in that had lost its funding and didn’t go into production. I was in fact fighting with my id much more than my ego at the time. I really wanted to stay in Berlin and maybe, possibly find love but…

 

62. Free

Once I accepted everything at face value, I felt free. I had struggled to make sense of the fantasy world that many Berliners and Berlin tourists were obsessed with. I had grown tired of the novelty of it all, but its persistence would go on despite my attitude towards wanting something more realistic in my world. I was waking up in the middle of the morning to the sounds of BDSM slaves being beaten and fornicated with. I figured if you can’t beat them, join them.

 

63. Grey

I had been eying this particular location for awhile. Located in one of the quieter parts of Schöneberg on the edge of Kreuzberg, this area was undergoing some heavy development and the imposing ways of gentrification were vivid in this neighborhood. Change was coming once again, bringing in the new and pushing out the old. I have always been a fan of the color grey and this park kind of exemplified the cold, dark angular paleness of East Berlin melded with the colorful and spritely aspects of the west. Naturally, the climbing, climbing, climbing theme returned to my work – that constant struggle that I find myself in and/or put myself in. This is also when Vimeo changed its policy on intellectual property rights for music, so it was a dreary day for me to find out that I would have to be more careful about my music choices. I hate the sound of my voice but the sentiment was fitting.

 

64. Space

Once again I had mustered to find my feet and I was going to make the confirmation to stay in Berlin. Though I was fighting with the urge to run away or to establish myself despite the decline in opportunities for financial sustenance – I figured out that I could make it once I had my own place after over a year of couch surfing and bed hopping and sleeping on park benches and other places that did not at all resemble any sort of home. My friend had an extra room and if I could muster up enough negligible cash, it was mine. Turns out, there was much more than meets the eye with the indecent proposal that ensued.

 

65.  I was on a crusade. I had been to over 5 organizations (including the police, the district attorney, a domestic abuse outreach program) over the span of 2 years to try and get help. After a lot of run around, arguing, doors slammed in my face, empty promises, lost paperwork, and general lack of sympathy – I decided to use my greatest weapon of satire and I wore this Tshirt to the family court on the third attempt to get a restraining order against my assailant. They didn’t find it as funny as I did, and you can see the perpetrator’s reaction as clearly noted by is response in the comments section. The audio in the film is from one of his many dastardly outbursts of insanity.

 

 

Prose: Schmerz – Part 5

The newest and most of a quandary of a pain is one that embodies a certain dichotomy between physical and emotional discomfort. It hurts both physiologically and psychologically, and the autonomic function of its origin is commonly taken for granted and/or overlooked altogether. A surprise to me at first when I was last accompanied by the arrival of it, the latter of the former and the cure of the cause. Suddenly I thought of the word that I had long expunged from my vocabulary all over again.

I see and hear the word Schmerz in advertisements and commercials and I am slightly tinged by the memories this particular vocabulary evokes. The glinting pangs do not envelope me in the way that they did before I grew a second and then a third skin against the impervious tradition of cold cultured Germany and its bastard child Berlin – both seemingly a part of a dysfunctional family at large with the ironic aptitude for luring illegitimate brethren to temporary trysts.

My language has gotten better over the past six months, in accordance to the shift in power and the seeping gentrification. I no longer get translation headaches thanks to my persistence, and the thoughtful dialect does not harm my ears the way it used to. Despite the lack of patience for my patient methodology of describing descriptions as suggested in deutsch, I am no longer scathed by the scolding.

Perhaps I was gracious for the schmerz that popped up like a darting and curious prairie dog, unexpected and welcomed at the same time. It was (as aforementioned) not the kind of schmerz resulting from extraordinary or experiential experience. It was not an ache in the head or the elbow or the ankle – these are qualms I’ve learned to withstand through my tribulations as an athlete and dancer, those joyous gained pains and trophies of progress. It was not the sting from a parasite, a marginal inconvenience that can sometimes go unnoticed until the arrival of a minute bump. It was not the stab of a foreign object, for I am over-aware of my surroundings these days so much so that I feel like I have developed a seventh sense.

This harm in particular came by way of nature and nurture and when it struck me I felt sick and healthy, miserable and happy, angry and pleased, helpless and helped, foolish and thankful…

I was full.

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I am no stranger to starvation…

I have declared a very succinct proclamation that I will heed only to value things that I need rather than what I want. It is of the most import to me that I withstand the luxuries of excess now that I have had the opportunity to succumb to destitution. Having a long history of this matter, it is not so much a daunting trial – and somehow I always knew that sleeping on piss stained mattresses on the floors of attics shared with multi-colored rodents and eating sugar sandwiches in intervals normally positioned for actual meals would be a blessing for me. These lack thereof times would provide me with appreciation for the future and allow me to be thankful that I have transcended.

This unaccustomed pain came to me in my gut in large droves of agony, it was that regretfully glutton feeling that I used to get in my youth when we went to those all-you-can-eat places or those church dinner buffets or those family reunions or holidays where the bounty was aplenty and we feasted like we were going to or coming from war. The battle was of course, not knowing when we would eat again.

I’ve always hated the feeling of full. There is not much you can do about the pain. You can touch your belly and rub it but the sourness of it all does not go away. It is not so glamourous feeling fattened up, especially when you have so well acclimated yourself with emaciation.

That harsh and abrupt jolt of cramping was, despite all, nostalgic and something I missed. Thanks to an insisting friend who nearly wept at the heavy dimple cracks that once were my cheeks and couldn’t help but to ponder the feebleness in my stature – I was greeted with this abominable schmerz.

It is the most frequent subject of this coerced curse. I see and hear and smell it everywhere. I want it just as much as I need it, if not more – and the guilt that proceeds therein becomes a haunting crutch of self-loathing. I fear that my stomach has shrunken so small that an iota of anything will bring back the sore burning no matter the rations I provide or deny myself. It is funny and sad that out of all of the harm I face, the truest and purest and most unbearable schmerz comes from food.

ldn

Schmerz – Part 1

Schmerz – Part 2

Schmerz – Part 3

Schmerz – Part 4